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**hitanshu** · 12-24-2004, 01:20 AM

quote:Originally posted by sumeet_great

actually my parents have no prob with my driving capabilites ,
i have been for local g2g but prob is they r one day from morning to evening so no probs , but going far away is a prob,there is another problem most of the trips like simla , timing r so that i cant come still i am in search of a g2g where i have time then ask my parents to give me a chance to do things my way . and

and not telling them and going ,will lead to key of my bike off my grip and my self out of the house

Sumeet,

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It's NOT about biking. This typically pertains to the control patterns of your parents. If you can normally assert yourself for important issues with your parents, then this should be a cakewalk.

If you're normally the obedient kid, then getting permission would need work. Lots of it.
[/off topic rant]

Personally, I'd say that take your family members into confidence, one by one. Bro, sis, mom then dad

**arn** · 12-24-2004, 04:56 AM

quote:Originally posted by hitanshu

quote:Originally posted by sumeet_great

actually my parents have no prob with my driving capabilites ,
i have been for local g2g but prob is they r one day from morning to evening so no probs , but going far away is a prob,there is another problem most of the trips like simla , timing r so that i cant come still i am in search of a g2g where i have time then ask my parents to give me a chance to do things my way . and

and not telling them and going ,will lead to key of my bike off my grip and my self out of the house

Sumeet,

[off topic rant]
It's NOT about biking. This typically pertains to the control patterns of your parents. If you can normally assert yourself for important issues with your parents, then this should be a cakewalk.

If you're normally the obedient kid, then getting permission would need work. Lots of it.
[/off topic rant]

Personally, I'd say that take your family members into confidence, one by one. Bro, sis, mom then dad

Agree fully! Some parents have blinkers welded onto them. Feel that whatever they cannot do/are scared doing, baby should not do. Know one guy whose dad has stopped him from buying a decent bike because he fels that child is not responsible enough. "Child", by the way is a merchant navy first officer.

Suggestion: Take your friends along, and have them promise to take care of you. This will make them feel better. Confronting them or bull******** them may backfire in the long run especially when they appear to have already locked their minds and thrown away the key.

**Ken** · 12-24-2004, 07:41 AM

I guess dialogue is normally the best option... if you let them know that you wanna do something that you're passionate about, they shouldnt normally give much resistance..

**sachinontop** · 12-24-2004, 07:52 AM

quote:Originally posted by Ken

I guess dialogue is normally the best option... if you let them know that you wanna do something that you're passionate about, they shouldnt normally give much resistance..

u r right ken, but some of them here doesn't want to think in this direction! they just want to run away from home & parents & then want to explode the news to them that they were 500 kms away from home!
silly ideas...![:0]

**lovemax** · 12-24-2004, 01:38 PM

Well ... well..well
A simple saying: A stich in time saves nine.
Y to hide it and then pop such thing while u are away.
Tell em and let em know that you are passionate about it.

**nikhilsc** · 12-25-2004, 10:22 AM

the topic is mis-leading, i thought you wanted advice to get an inner line permit or something ...

**lovemax** · 12-25-2004, 08:09 PM

Sure it is nikhil, but kya karen the owner started himself like this.... I thought the same for a while.

**sachinontop** · 12-26-2004, 02:50 AM

@nik: buddy u can sure shed some lite on this!

u have been on so many trips... surely with the 'permits(!)'...
just give these enthusiastic xbhpians some hot tips!

**prodigy350** · 12-31-2004, 12:11 PM

LOL.. this topic is so silly,

buddy what do u want here, psychatric help or what ??? i guess u are a 18+ and i hope u have enough brains to decide for urself what's good for u and what's not. if u don have the balls for long rides or rebel, if u can't convince ur parents.. then jus forget long rides...

**lovemax** · 12-31-2004, 03:07 PM

@ prodigy :bhai he is a starter boy.. It will take him some time to come to all of ours level.

**sambhramp** · 07-11-2009, 06:10 PM

Just say you are going for a movie in the morning and eating lunch and dinner outside.How hard can it be?

**moeed** · 07-14-2009, 01:36 AM

Okay bro, if you don't want to lie to your parents then you can try this.

Take your dad or mom with you on a short ride and ride safely so that they can get confidence in your riding and understand that the highway is safe(if you ride safely). That's it and you are done!

**sam92** · 07-14-2009, 02:01 AM

Originally posted by moeed View Post

Okay bro, if you don't want to lie to your parents then you can try this.

Take your dad or mom with you on a short ride and ride safely so that they can get confidence in your riding and understand that the highway is safe(if you ride safely). That's it and you are done!

^^ +100

tell your mum or dad that some day or the other you will or HAVE to go out to the open world //
make sure you wear a helmet gloves and other protective gear if you have and make sure they see it ..
my dad dosent mind even if i go to a 500+km ride ..
he is also very happy that i wear a helmet ...

well its a different story that my dad was a jockey [hobby]

**sambhramp** · 07-14-2009, 02:17 AM

Just put some fuel and go bob.If you want to ride,you will do it,its as simple as that.

Edit:just call home after sometime to make sure that your parents dont think youve run away or gone to kill yourself.

**pradeep reddy** · 07-14-2009, 02:25 AM

does ur family know about xbhp...even if i am doing a trip with my collage friends i tell my parents tat i am going with xbhpians...they dont have any problem or if i am going alone too they dont mind,since they know i can handle things...but they put a strong resistance if i plan to go with any of my other friends..

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