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YES, you should do the trip,
as i highlighted a few of your excerpts, i feel you need to bring back the zing in your life and this is the best way.

if you don't do it now, whole your life you would be thinking and repenting, "What if you could have done it"
you might succeed with the endeavour or you might fail. But the regret of not giving it the last push will always remain.
If you do it, you will have your self-esteem and confidence back.
Right now you are sounding like a lost man, which after the ride you won't be.

Ooh now i am sounding like Krishna of Geeta, discoursing Arjun


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In my case, i didn't succeed.
I did the trip successfully, and returned a lost lover.
But still this trip, "because i love you" remains closest to my heart, and to my girl's heart as well.

Its a love gift i gave to my lady love.


i might be a failed lover but a satisfied man. and thats what matters.


Do the trip with full planning. make the impossible, P.O.S.S.I.B.L.E.
Come back and tell me you did it.

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Nice Narration Bro... you made me a kid listening to a tale without blinking my eyes

Every pic of yours made me fall in love with them...

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u know bro,,, i dont read love stories at all,, dont hear romantic songs,, dont go into break up stuff of my friends,,, reason it remind me those thorny painful memories of mine,,, the time when i felt i was dying every minute ,,, yet i didnt die,,, i shdnt have read it in the first place,, i knew ,, i knew in the first place she cdnt go against her parents ,, they dont go against their parents man,,,,,,, but i had a hope she might,,,,, but like all girl but like my girl,,,ur's didnt go against her parents as well ,,,,,, now every one is happy every one is having merriments joys,,,, but not u and not me,,,,,,,,,,

pheww man it sucks,,, it sucks big time,,,,,,, all i cd say u aint sole one,, feeling being alone dried of emotions scared of getting along with other girls again,,, there are many like u,,,, there are many like us bhaii,,,,,,,, God bless us with just a little of happiness just a little ,, i m not asking much,,,,, at least a day God plzz,,,,,,,,

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Now, this is what we mean by an epic t'log. Beautiful!

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Since it's valentine's day today I searched xbhp for "valentine's day" posts. The keyword "day" brought me to this thread. Is it just a coincidence or is it meant to make me realize something?

Every part of the blog made me recollect the past things : Talking about bikes and boring her, wondering if she was actually listening to me when I did that, getting drenched in rain with her, first kiss, movies together, incessant talks, life plans, surprising her with uninformed visits, etc etc. At times your descriptions made me realize one fine thing and brought tears to my eyes. It's the memories that haunt us and not the person anymore. I experienced a similar thing but with a different ending. It was ugly and I had to lose the respect for what she was becoming. But I still miss the "old her" who gave me a lot of experiences. In the time I spent with her, I had acquired "her" traits and I was struggling to see the truth. With time, there was no difference between her and me. I started feeling she was more important and she was not spending enough time with me. This turned in to frustration and anger with time as the conditions in my house were not good too. I had to leave the house I was in since my birth. She loved me being possessive of her. She even craved for it as she thought keeping me under her watch would take us long. I do not believe in religion. I take up true words from anyone who is uttering it. With this background, one day after the break up, I happened to come across this line by Lord Krishna from Mahabarath. It says "we become what/who we dedicate ourselves to". That's when I realized that I had let down my parents and family for the bad. Indeed the memories still haunt me. I had no clue how I became "her". I lost the respect I had for her. Ego developed into a monster. She lost the respect she had for me. She came out with the ugly facts about her that she had been hiding from me. As she is stubborn by nature, she was the same with me. She didn't consider me all of a sudden and her family had different plans for her( do not want to describe that even in my dreams). I always felt that if there is true love then it will come across all odds. Though she used to say she would take life as it comes, she never seemed to have found happiness in what she has. No contentment. A hypocrite, maybe? I faced all the rumours that a typical ex-gf had to spread post the breakup. I never heeded to them. I let time do the things for me. She was stubborn but lacked conviction, patience and sympathy. I was in vain. I regret those ugly conversations I had with her. As time passed, I had become more conscious.

One day, during a movie, before the movie started, there was an advertisement of RTR on the screen. As per the usual routine, everytime I see a bike I used to ask her if this could be my first bike :P And she obviously didn't like the bike on screen. This break up was one of the reasons apart from necessities that I had to buy my first bike. I got my driver's license for both car and bike. As I was becoming myself again, I started loving the RTR , which I used to love, back again. I indeed got that bike irrespective of everyone's opinion. Because I had fallen in love with it. I wanted to forget her and I kept trying so many things. But only until realisation dawned. I realized that its not going to be the person anymore but the memories. I had become more responsible. I figured out what I wanted to do with my life. I realised that emotions blind our minds. I realised nothing will be permanent. All these made me show no hate or "over-attachment" towards others. I started loving the things I did. I realised that desires, when they cross a limit, kill a person. I started controlling my anger and desire for unnecessary things. What else could be more painful than haunting memories? Well initially trying to control the unnecessary desires seemed like a huge burden. But hey, I never thought about another factor. It's the same mind that prompts us to want it more and more. So controlling it does not mean losing it unless it was already yours.

After moving on, with due course of time I started meeting people. I re-discovered my passions and added biking to it. I caught up with my schoolmates and the best buddies whom I ignored during my infamous relationship, a great mistake I made. I started attaching myself to things just to the extent that I could also detach myself out when it was necessary. Life now seems to be all fun with my month and a half old bike and other brewing things. Again, I found my long lost school-crush :P asked her out casually and she even agreed to meet me. No hopes but I kind of wish she becomes my girl forever :P I do not know if she would be with me in the future but now I am prepared to take on anything. If she is willing to then I will fight for her. Else, I will not hate her. Nor love her. I will still hold my limits and respect for her. My parents have become more understanding after my previous painful phase. So now I do not have this emotional barrier too. I feel so grateful to my parents. I realised how they have spent their life for me. I realised that there are so many people who do not even have a proper family, food or shelter. So, I shouldn't be worrying about this phase even a bit.

PS: I am just 19. I feel so blessed for this phase to be a part of my life. Its early and I have lots of time to correct my mistakes and shape my attitude which derailed me in the past. And I have a question to end this with. I totally agree that giving in to our parents' desires is more important as they've spent their lifetime for us. But after their span they are not going to be there to look after at us. They can't even be sure if the girl they chose for us will still be with us or not. Are we giving in for some speculative stuff and taking the burden for satisfying the desires of two souls? If yes, then why do not they add sacrificing this desire for us? Because, for them, their life motive would end with our marriages but for us isn't it the beginning? They were the ones who taught us not to keep up with so called desires and why do they do that? Ignoring religion, false promises, emotional blackmails et all and knowing that fulfillment of the desires is not the sole objective of life, if the girl is good then why brood?

PPS: Boy-oh-boy life is nothing but a dream and we all still wander with our desires, on a bike with full tank of fuel, yay :P ! (not a dream if the person is happy knowing that it still brings him pain :P) . Just kidding, all I now know is that we need to keep doing our work/duty and right people and things will come and "stay"

Thanks for reading and sorry for making this long.

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Good that you have rediscovered the essence of life. You are pretty young and have the entire life in front of you and of course the entire world to ride to. But first, focus on your career. It might sound selfish but trust me. 20 years down the line and you will realize how futile these emotions are,
Best of luck. Ride safe.

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[MENTION=73995]srinath2494[/MENTION] : Well put, kid.

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I do not need 20 more years to realize it. I have already realized that this much concern for such emotions are futile and that made me to "stop" and "comment" here. Yet, it only makes me ponder why we still cherish such emotions and memories. And yes sir, I will find a career that will fund my passions including biking

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Thank you, sir

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[MENTION=73995]srinath2494[/MENTION]

u may be 19, But you dont write like one.

my current bike was a result of my breakup. It happened on 14th feb and i brought the pulsar home on 18th feb.
and i am glad she broke up with me.

and dont b sorry bro, we love reading experiences of our brothers. Thats what makes us bikers. We support each other.

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because the heart was meant to pump blood, but we use it for other things.

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I hear that a lot and thanks. For me, the break up was never the sole reason why I got an RTR. It was just a factor in determining which bike was going to be mine. I had other necessities to get a bike I feel there is nothing related to the heart here. Everything is stored in and manipulated by the brain. And with a little determination, it's always under our control for a better future Here I would like to mention the quote of mewtwo, a legendary pokemon : It once said, 'I see now that the circumstances of one's birth are irrelevant. It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are'.

People might find it silly because it's said by a pokemon and I am quoting it here. I have been following pokemon and it's sometimes really moving and inspirational. Do know that this wasn't even said by Gandhi or Martin Luther king or Swamy Vivekanand :P :P Pokemon, superheroes and women give nice experiences for our lives :P

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Great story Ankit, that was a great travel log though & congrats for the successful ride, I think you should move on and stop writing your story in public as it will only spoil you and your future... And make even better love story with your real life partner (or with a upcoming girl), give her much more love then her as possible... people do become mean and they only impose excuses to move on... I am a Punjabi guy and religion doesn't matter in Punjabis; a lot of people here use to marry in different religions. The thing that diverts people is wealth and status; leave your past as your precious life is all about yourself. So love yourself and your surroundings; make it special for yourself... I am sure you'll find that happiness and your true love will arrive in your life very soon. Hope for the best and prepare yourself for the next...