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I am not a big fan of making mods in my bike ............. but yes I carry a big dream of owning a litre class SBK one day ........ may be then I will look into the aftermarket world

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Thank you for the response and that is understandable. It is a case to case basis mate.
Just wondering how other fellow BHPians go about it!!!

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You guys are beating around the bush, stress is not a disease, it's a symptom. So unless you cure the cause of the stress, it can't be relieved, I do understand that sometimes it's not possible so as a coping mechanism I suggest doing what you really love. For me I love cardio or any other hard manual labor, I prefer cardio as after some times it gives me a painless state, it feels great and I can't stop running, it helps with insomnia too. You can also try social work, today (Ah, yesterday) was the foundation day of our college and I helped out with cooking and serving food, it was a great experience.

About relationship advises, I think people should not fall in love. Simple as that, I have been in so many relationships than I care to remember (Actually, I do remember, every single thing) and I can tell that it's not worth the effort and money. Women are hard to understand and we should try not to, instead of wasting time with them, insert the key, press the starter and go vroom... If you must fall in love, be prepared to make a lot of sacrifices.

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Nice point; I'll stop loving my Wife hehe

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Women - Are you referring to a girl friend or a wife? There is a reason why I ask

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Calling out help from all fathers out here .
What did you do when your 2 year old daughter did not sleep normally? Especially when she seems to be liking only power naps; sleeps for an hour or two and wants to stay awake for about 9-10hours at a stretch in the night.

I work in shifts. I have reviewed every site possible and tried to implement the solutions but in vain. Doctor says it is normal. Any tested and worked out methods would be greatly remembered folks :-(

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I was talking about a girlfriend.

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True and there is always a way out.

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I have been with my girlfriend for 3 yrs now.. and i have to start a fight to keep the relationship from getting bored.. i introduced her to my mom and bro.. they like her.. my bro even spoke with my dad about her and it is in the verge of tying knots.. i have been in relationship before as well.. but this girl is not like the others.. now just waiting for a green signal from her after she speaks with her parents.. then the knots will be tied.. i need all your prayers ;-) not curses if you know what I mean maybe i am more careful now after the couple of lessons from the previous relationships :-)

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Worry not brother. These days parents are much forward minded than we (teenagers) are. Looks like they chose to be adaptive or forced to be so. Either ways it is good for the kid as long as he/she chooses the right 'compatible' partner. One should not just fall in love and proceed but should also visualize on how their partner's attitude would be in the future and if he/she would be able to tackle critical situations.

Especially in love marriages, it is always advised to not only love each other, but also love each other's parents and siblings.
Whatever it is, a love marriage is a love marriage.

The elders agree and arrange for the marriage to sustain the family's respect in the society and within relatives. Later, if things go wrong, the couple will be blamed for almost all scenarios. So love your lover's parents and siblings even though they may not keep up to your expectations or in line to your family traditions. It is also a way of taking your love to the next stage. Most importantly, it helps keep unnecessary debates and arguments at bay after marriage or rather you get used to it. Hope you get the hidden clue @rreneav1987 saar.

I will definitely pray for you and wishing you good luck! Cheers!

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Well let me first wish you a best of luck for future and will always remember you and you would be in our prayers. It is a good thing that you feel you present relationship is a strong and everlasting one. It is good that you have not just come into a conclusion that I love her so I will marry her but instead took the effort of knowing her better and finally decided to marry her. And like said before love your in laws like your wife because they spent their whole life to bring her up and have decided to give her a total stranger. You should give them the confidents that their decision of giving her hand to you was the best decision in their life.
Cheers
Mathews

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That is for sure.. i will treat her parents as mine because i know the importance of parents.. :-) my parents have taught me to be a human.. especially my mom.. my parents marriage was against their parents will. My dad was kicked out of the house.. and till now.. my parents love each others parents to the core.. my mom used to take care of dad's pop and he is no more.. and my dad takes care of my mom's mom and is always ready to lend a hand when needed by mom' siblings.. and vice versa with mom.. thats how I will be and i strictly told her the same for which she said she is raised up the same way and wanted to tell me the same.. lol.. what a coincidence that was.. :-)

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Excellent wavelength I should say! Good for you.
BTW, just take time and take this slowly keeping an eye on everybody's reaction and response... not an advice.

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"And like I said before love your in laws like you love your wife because they spent their whole life to bring her up and have decided to give her a total stranger. You should give them the confidents that their decision of giving her hand to you was the best decision in their life."

@rreneav1987, as posted by @accuengineer The comments in italics are golden advice. But it is like walking on thorns. It takes time and understanding. However do not overdo things which will clear spoil the show. I guess you are prepared for the showtime to get introduced to your girl's parents soon.

Whew! I am sure you have started the day with some interesting posts and advises. Let me stop here.
Good day and keep us udpated if you can .

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Ah, talking of marriage, I'm never ever getting married. I have seen and experienced many things that makes me scared of getting married. For me the things I don't get when I ask for, I never ever take them even when I'm given the chance. I have sworn not to eat meat and fish as a kid, and still to this day after like 15 years, I haven't tasted them. Also I don't eat chocolates as it has some things associated with it that I don't like. Now-a-days many girl try to talk to me with affection and I can see they are slightly interested in me but I avoid them all as I don't see the reason why I should waste my time and effort entertaining them. I have also stopped helping others as they do not appreciate it.

I wish you all the best for your marriage but I would like to ask why were you flirting with my (now ex) girlfriend?