At idle engine is NOT under load, in gear it is. When you rev in gear, since the engine is already under load, it sustains the RPM for a longer period of time and hence the wear and tear of parts is less. But, without any load, the increase and decrease in RPM is very fast and wears out mechanical components very fast. The engine suddenly goes from heavy movement to none while it's decelerating rapidly in idling cases and that is sure to kill the crank bearings and other parts.
A motor in neutral has no load on it, so in theory the piston is trying to stretch the connecting rod and break itself loose. Rev it high enough and long enough in neutral and it'll do just that, or bend a valve perhaps.


). The other bearing is perfectly fine can run another 10k easily.

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